I belong to a church that teaches
complete abstinence before marriage, and complete fidelity after marriage. This same church teaches that marriage is
between man and woman (or women depending on the timeframe in question). I belong to a church that teaches homosexual
practices are a sin. That being said, I
am a proud member of this church.
However, I belong to a church that also
teaches understanding, loving your fellow man with the same love Christ
would. I am a proud member of this
church.
Let me demonstrate two very real
situations and demonstrate some parallels.
The church that I belong to has not
always received mainstream acceptance.
When it was first founded it was immediately the object of much
persecution. It was persecuted so much
that its followers had to move to Kirtland, Ohio. Through several years, and several moves it
finally ended up in Missouri, and then Nauvoo, Illinois. Their largest crime? They were Mormon.
There are currently a group of
people in our nation that are treated as second class. They are not permitted to marry and have the
rights that go along with that. In some
areas they can be denied employment and housing. Their crime?
They are attracted to people of the same gender.
The Mormons petitioned the
government for a redress of grievances.
The President’s reply “Your cause is just, but I can do nothing for you” People were claiming it was their religious
right to persecute the Mormons, while all the Mormons were doing was asking for
tolerance, and understanding.
LGBT are asking for the same rights
everyone else in society enjoys. States
are coming together in droves to pass constitutional amendments to prohibit
their marriage. In my own State there
was a debate over whether or not it should be illegal to use their sexual preference
as reason to deny them housing. All they
are asking for is tolerance and understanding.
Interesting notion, when a minority
is asking for tolerance and understanding the majority is quick to ask for the
same back. I understand you Mormons want
tolerance and understanding, but you have to understand, I have my religious
rights persecute you. I understand you
want the same rights I enjoy to marry the one you love, but you have to
understand my right to persecute you. The
group enjoying the rights the other desperately seeks has a hard time morally
claiming their point of view needs acceptance as well.
Recently there was a debate over
whether or not Mormons are Christians.
Mormons are exclaiming we believe in Jesus, of course we are! Other Christians are saying that we just too
different, and while we may believe in the same being, are not Christian.
Many people don’t mind civil
unions, or domestic partnerships or whatever the term of the day happens to be;
but cannot accept the fact they want to call it a marriage. If it looks like a duck, and quacks like a
duck…it’s a duck. If it looks like a
marriage, and acts like a marriage…it’s a marriage, no matter what you call it.
When Utah was applying for
statehood, the idea of polygamy was the reason it kept on being denied. The Mormons were claiming it was their
protected first amendment rights to practice polygamy, and took the issue to
the Supreme Court. The Supreme Court
came down and said that laws prohibiting polygamy were indeed lawful.
The LGBT is petitioning courts
asking for their rights to marry. I hope
this is where the parallel ends.
I am not saying that understanding
and tolerance is a full embracement. Reasonable
people are allowed to disagree, but to deny someone a right that you enjoy, be
it to religion, marry or to even vote is not something reasonable people can
do.
I am grateful to live in a country
where places like Chick-fil-A can make a statement on marriage, and not be
legally punished; where citizens are allowed to march in a Gay Pride parade and
not be legally punished; where citizens are allowed to disagree on what they
think is right and wrong. However, I
firmly believe that disagreeing with someone is not a basis to deny them a
right.